How a Doula Can Help You

Virtual support from a doula

A doula can support you virtually.

Hands-on support is, of course, the best… but is it possible to have doula support if your hospital doesn’t allow doulas to accompany their clients? The simple answer is YES!

The most important aspect of doula support is empowerment. I’ve had clients who had a precipitous birth, which is labor that lasts no more than three hours from onset of regular contractions to birth. By the time they called me, it was too late for me to do much labor support and sometimes the baby arrived before I did!

One client emailed me at 8:27 p.m. asking if I thought she might be in early labor. At 9:06, her husband called and said they were heading for the hospital. I arrived at the hospital at 9:40 and got to her room at 9:50 – baby was born at 9:54. Luckily, I managed to catch the birth on film. The new mom turned to me and said, “I’m so glad you’re here – I couldn’t have done this without you!”

When I responded that I had just arrived, she said that the birth preparation empowered them to feel confident and not afraid even though labor was moving very quickly.

One HUGE advantage to virtual childbirth education and virtual labor support is that I can now support pregnant people no matter where they live!

If you’re interested in virtual childbirth education and virtual labor support, just schedule a FREE virtual interview on my calendar – or fill out my contact form and I’ll get back to you ASAP. I’d love to be your virtual doula!

If you and your partner are a great team and you don’t want additional support, you can help your partner help you using the tips in the book “700 Babies.”

Learn which interventions and protocols are optional, which are necessary, and which are potentially harmful to you and your baby! 

 

A doula can save you money.

The presence of a doula during your labor can reduce the need for a C-section by 40-60%. Your co-payment for a surgical birth may be less than the doula’s fees, and you may be reimbursed for up to 70% of your doula’s fees by your insurance company.

Even without reimbursement, you can still save money by hiring a doula to prevent unnecessary and expensive procedures. These charges include the cost of the anesthesiologist, the additional days spent in the hospital, all additional tests and procedures required for a baby born via surgery, and the cost of postpartum help while the new mother recovers from major abdominal surgery.

Can you afford not to hire a doula for your baby’s birth?

Sometimes there are no available or affordable doulas in your area — I have a solution for you! My book, “700 Babies” only costs $20 and the Kindle version is half the price! This book will help you recognize, understand and avoid unnecessary and potentially harmful interventions!

 

A doula can save you money
A doula can ease your fears

A doula can ease your fears.

The fact that you are here, at this website, may mean that you are looking for something beyond a typical hospital birth experience. Perhaps you’ve heard horror stories about unnecessary and unwanted interventions, inductions, and c-sections. Perhaps your first birth was a nightmare and you’re hoping for a calmer, easier, faster birth this time. An experienced doula can make all the difference.

Perhaps you’re here because you want your birth experience to be life-affirming, rewarding, and even enjoyable. This is your chance to feel empowered, safe, and cared for, and to have a better birth in a hospital, birth center, or at home. Whether you’re planning a natural, unmedicated birth, an epidural, or a surgical birth, the first step toward a better birth experience includes the support of an experienced doula.

I can be there for you to support your wishes and ensure your birth goes smoothly. I’ve been a doula for over 28 years, and I make 3 promises to all of my clients: I will not let you suffer, I will always tell the truth, and nothing you say or do in labor will disappoint me or hurt my feelings. See what some former clients had to say about their experiences:

Testimonials

What Our Clients Say

Thanks Goodness tracy was there. All I can say, I couldn’t have done it without her help, support and guidance. She was a guiding light for me, someone I trusted and could turn to when I found myself freaking out. She is very cool, calm and collected and puts you at ease, even in the throws of labor. She does her absolute best to make you feel comfortable and knows her way around a hospital setting. Worth every penny.
- Sheena R.

Tracy is super supportive and comforting. Having Tracy next to me during my daughter’s labor gave me the strength and confidence I needed during L&D. With the expansive knowledge Tracy has she was able to provide me with guidance to make my labor more relaxed and enjoyable! Beautiful Soul!!!

- Zorina P.

You deserve a better birth experience.

If you’re uncertain about what hospital is best for your type of birth, please check the Hospital Project – where hospitals are rated by experienced doulas based on what services, protocols and policies are in place.

And if you want to help make changes to hospital policies, be sure to participate in the Letters Project (and tell all of your pregnant friends!)